Scorpios Ruin Their Own Lives

Hello loves ❤

As you all know, I am a Scorpio – I am a HARSH Scorpio. If there is something that is right in life its my ZODIAC SIGN.

Below are 11 reasons how Scorpios ruin their life without even realising.

 

  1. You ruin your life when you judge yourself too harshly.

As a Scorpio, you are your own toughest critic. This leads you to much success but even greater self-inflicted pressure. The want and need to succeed becomes your single-minded focus. Sometimes you focus too much on the destination and don’t spend as much time on the journey.

 

  1. You ruin your life by burning bridges and not forgiving others.

You are one of the most loyal signs. With that loyalty, you hold others to that same standard and you don’t expect them to mess up or hurt you. Sometimes they do. No one is perfect even you who strives for perfection. But you hold grudges, burn bridges and don’t forgive people for what they’ve done even when they say sorry. It’s good to be cautious. But sometimes you’re overcautious.

 

  1. You ruin your life when you fear love and push people away.

You love harder than any sign which means you are bound to get hurt even more. And you have. Pain changes people and you’ve built a wall around your heart completely overcome with fear of letting anyone too close. But the pain you fear repeating yourself and pushing people away if you let them in you’ll realize some people’s love has the ability to heal.

 

  1. You ruin your life by reliving the past.

Scorpios tend to dwell on the past and fear the future. Failing to live in the moment and be happy. When you live in the past you build it up to be something it wasn’t. You replay memories painting them better than they were and not seeing it for what it was. That will always leave you feeling a bit empty and guilty. Learn to let go and not feel bad about it.

 

  1. You ruin your life by not trusting your instincts.

Scorpios are the most intuitive of all signs and should trust themselves more. But like everyone they have doubts. The problem arises when they turn to too many people and lose sight of what they even want.

 

  1. You ruin your life when you hide your emotions.

Because you are so emotional, you’re afraid of it sometimes. You are afraid to show that side to anyone. You fear vulnerability. You fear someone getting to know you to the core of who you are and rejecting you. And instead of showing you care you come across as difficult with sharp edges when in reality your bark is completely opposite of your bite.

 

  1. You ruin your life by allowing yourself to burn out.

You hate saying no to people. You hate letting anyone down. You stay busy and never catch a break. But sometimes you need to and most the time you deserve it. Before you spread yourself too thin remember it’s okay to say no.

 

  1. You ruin your life by being too competitive.

When it comes to others you want to be the best. And it isn’t an ego thing. It’s a you thing always striving to achieve your best. A lot of people look at it as arrogant. But you didn’t just wake up being the best you worked at it. But it’s okay when you lose sometimes. It’s okay when someone is better than you. Striving for perfection is admirable but don’t kill yourself with unrealistic expectations.

 

  1. You ruin your life by not having faith in other people.

You think you are the only one you can trust. The only one who can do something right. But if you put faith in others they will surprise you. You like having control and taking ownership of your life. But it’s okay to let go of reins a bit.

 

  1. You ruin your life by being so blunt.

You have the best intentions you just don’t know how, to be honest without it hurting people. The truth hurts and Scorpios don’t hold back or care if it’s offensive. Anyone who wants an honest opinion of a situation and good advice where someone won’t blow smoke up your ass, turn to you. But sometimes it’s okay to not always say what you’re thinking and just let people make the mistakes they are going to make.

 

  1. You ruin your life by not loving yourself better

You do really well for yourself and you work so hard. But you never give yourself credit where credit is due. You are always focusing on the next hurdle instead of celebrating in the past success. You strive for perfection because you focus too much on your flaws and the mistakes you’ve made. But if you saw yourself the way everyone else did, you’d realize how wonderful you are. You deserve to see yourself in that light.

 

^ All the above is TRUE! Its all SPOT ON! I love this. But its also a lot of things that I most certainly need to work on ❤

Wherever you are in the world, have a lovely day ❤

A, x (1)

Do You Believe in Horoscopes?

Hello loves, ❤

I am the biggest sucker for ZODIAC SIGNS… Now, if you are not I completely respect you so please respect my decision in loving them.

I just feel that things truly relate to my life – From the traits, to the daily horoscope check to even the things I cannot tolerate.

Find your zodiac sign below & tell me if this is the one thing you cannot tolerate in a relationship:

 

Aries (March 21 – April 19)

You can’t stand a nagging partner. You’re independent and your schedule is always filled with adventures, meetings and things to do. A nagging partner will probably push you away if they demand too much attention or time from you.

Taurus (April 20 – May 20)

You can’t stand someone who doesn’t know what they want. You’re a fixed sign and you like to plan things and know where you stand or where the relationship is going. Someone who is all over the place or still figuring themselves out will probably make you feel insecure and will force you to drop the relationship altogether.

Gemini (May 21 – June 20)

You can’t be with someone who doesn’t have a sense of humor or doesn’t laugh at your lousy jokes. You like to entertain people and make them laugh and having someone who doesn’t get your quirky and bubbly nature will make you run the other way. You’d rather be alone than with someone who doesn’t accept you the way you are.

Cancer (June 21 – July 22)

You can’t tolerate a logical partner. You’re all about being emotional and sentimental and expressing yourself. Having someone meet your emotions with logic will always make you question yourself and will cause a lot of misunderstandings and problems in your communication which will more than likely make the relationship to fall apart.

Leo (July 23 – August 22)

You can’t tolerate someone who doesn’t give you enough attention. If you’re not their main focus and if they don’t treat you like you’re the only one, you’ll probably feel unsatisfied or your relationship will lack passion because you don’t feel loved or appreciated enough. If they don’t make you their world, you will find someone else who will.

Virgo (August 23 – September 22)

You can’t tolerate a partner who is not ambitious. Your career and your future always come first and you prefer to be around people who are working toward the same goals in life. Being with someone who doesn’t have goals and dreams or doesn’t think much about the future will be a major turn-off for you and you’ll feel disconnected from them all the time.

Libra (September 23 – October 22)

You can’t stand closed-minded people. You love everything in moderation and you’re always open to changing and learning from others. Someone who is rigid or fixed in their ways will suffocate you in a relationship because you won’t have the freedom to be yourself or grow as a person. You’re always evolving and you need a partner who evolves with you.

Scorpio (October 23 – November 21)

You can’t tolerate someone who lies to you or manipulates you. You’re very clever and you can read people very well. If you find out that your partner hides a lot of things from you, you will never be able to fully trust them again or forgive them because you don’t forget.

Sagittarius (November 22 – December 21)

You can’t tolerate someone who doesn’t like to travel. You need an adventurous partner otherwise there will be no relationship to begin with. You love to travel and explore the world and you need someone who can keep up with you and wants to visit all the countries on your bucket list.

Capricorn (December 22 – January 19)

You can’t be with an impatient person. You like to take your time and you take things slow. It takes time for you to open up and trust someone new and feeling pressured to rush things because your partner is impatient will never work with you. You will always follow your own pace before letting someone in.

Aquarius (January 20 – February 18)

You can’t be with someone traditional. Your rebellious nature and unfiltered personality will not match with someone who can’t think outside the box. You’re full of surprises and you don’t really care about what others think or what the ‘rules’ are and you need someone who admires and understands that.

Pisces (February 19 – March 20)

You can’t tolerate insensitive or cold people. You’re emotional and you like to help others and put yourself in their shoes. Once you realize that your partner lacks empathy and compassion, you will never respect them because you like to give back and you want to be with someone who does the same.

I am a Scorpio & that is ME all over! No ifs or buts. I can admit that is 19732598% me!

I’d love to hear if the above & yourself have any similarities.

Wherever you are in the world, have a lovely day ❤

A, x (1)