This Is For You

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Hello loves, ❤

This is for the person with anxiety. For the one with dry eyes and big dreams and a relentless spirit. For the one that is their own worst enemy and their only friend. For the one that reading this has felt the tremor of every fleeting emotion and yet, feels nothing at all.

For the one that yearns to fill their days with explosions of love, hurricanes of passion and a rainfall of peace. For the one that knows that it doesn’t matter how slowly you go as long as you don’t stop, but how much longer and will they ever get there?

This is for the person whose pulse sometimes feels like a rocket headed for space but trapped in their body. The one that feels the vibration of every noise with every fiber of their being and it hurts, but they trusts that one day their body will learn— the danger is gone.

This is for the person that has spent too many a day on a battlefield with their thoughts — running away from them or tirelessly accepting, making promises or greeting threats.

Who has always taken a double portion of responsibility and twice the guilt because they live life in parallel. A life of endless dilemmas that tear you apart; a part of you is here but the other always somewhere far away in the realm of better possibilities.

This is for the person that sometimes feels utter exhaustion without having done a thing at all, because that’s what living in their head feels like.

For the one that has used up all of their energy to try and remain calm, and is now angry because they got mountains to climb, rivers to swim in and rainbows to walk over.

For the person that has tossed and turned and tossed and turned and there isn’t a cold corner of their bedsheets left that they can cling to. For the person who has jiggled with the threat of death in their head, while their body has faithfully carried on with the day.

For the person that is small and tiny but is actually a kingdom for three: their fear, their thoughts and their loving heart. And to the one that has spent most of their days trying to make it a harmonious trio.

For the person that knows this to be true, but refuses it to see it as a sad story. For they are not a victim. But is grateful instead for their chance to grow and become their own master. They still feel the bliss in every day and slows down to smell the roses. They never forget to thank God for every waking day. Yes, to you I want to say— I see you, I feel you, I believe in you.

Your darkness is my light. The places that scare you, the situations that dare you, they glare you. They make you real and living and true. How you build yourself over and over again, with the rise of dawn every morning despite what the night had brought, how you keep trying to accept yourself despite the voices that tell you, you are hard to love. How you hope against hope, and hold tight and always breathe new life to your extinguished fire — that to me is beauty and meaning and strength. You are the first star to appear оn the night sky and defy the darkness, you are the pearl oyster covered in stardust in the debris of the sea, you are the graceful ballerina that keeps on dancing on a tightrope despite her pain.

You know not what you do, but trust me if there is one thing that brings light to this world, it is you.

Wherever you are in the world, have a lovely day ❤

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Keep Going Even When Times Are Hard

Keep Going Even When Times Are Hard

Hello loves, ❤

You might be feeling pretty much upset today, and because some of the things didn’t go according to your plan, you started to feel that everything is falling apart and you can’t do anything about it. You’re probably blaming yourself because you think you’re not good enough. You think you’re a mess and there ain’t any progress in your life.

You’re being too hard on yourself, so let me stop you there. When these negative thoughts take over, I want you to breathe and relax. Close your eyes and talk to the Lord. Remember your greatest accomplishment. Those memorable moments you’ve shared with your friends, your family. Reminisce those days and believe that life is not always about the difficult times.

You are more than your bad days, honey. You are more than your mistakes. You are more than that voice at the back of your head saying you won’t make it.

Because the truth is, YOU CAN and YOU WILL.

You might have been failed in the past, but that doesn’t mean you’ll fail forever. Failure simply means there’s something to be learned. Something to improve, and something that reminds you to take another shot to try it all again.

Just keep going.

The universe is not always on your side. It can be very tempting to just give up when times get tough, but as long as the Lord is giving you the opportunity to wake up every morning, you need to push yourself and keep going.

You need to learn how to break whatever barriers are placed in your way. There’s no easy way out, so be patient. Fight for your goals and let your dreams become reality.

Please know that things will get better.

Yes, it will. And this is not a wishful thinking, but rather a guarantee. As the Lord will strengthen you and will always guide you on the right path. This is just a test. You might be struggling today, but someday it will all make sense.

Never stop believing.

You have come this far. Isn’t fair to acknowledge your strength as a little token for yourself? Why not be proud of your battle scars and see it as a mark of courage to elevate? Remember that every single day, you’re only getting better and stronger.

Believe in yourself. Just by reading this article means you’re trying. You’re trying to figure out how you can keep up with life, and trying is a sign that you are brave enough. Don’t let negative thinking or anxiety plays against you. Don’t believe in them, just believe in yourself.

You are one step closer to succeeding and you know what it takes for you to get there. Just hold on and keep going. Someday, you’ll be thankful of the rough beginnings.

Wherever you are in the world, have a lovely day ❤

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68,000 Views, Yay!

Hello loves, ❤

I pray you are all doing well 🙂

Here we are again, adding another 1000 views to the bag.

68,000 VIEWS! 

I cannot believe how far we’ve come – We are approaching our 2 year anniversary soon. WOOOOO! 24 months of blogging ❤ What a journey it has been.

The friendships I have made & the amount of emails I receive, the love & support that is behind each & every one of you is so inspiring ❤

I wanted to thank all you lovely people for emailing me recently, my emails have been going through the roof, whether it is everyone just saying hello, to asking questions, to sharing guest appearance blogs that go onto my page, to sharing their thoughts about my blog. I love them all! AND… replying to each & every one of you makes me so happy ❤

If you want to get in contact, feel free to come over & say hello 🙂

I wanted to thank the below people for re-blogging my work ❤

May is going to be a big month for me 🙂 I have so many great things coming up for all you lovely people.

I have the below two series coming out in May:

  • Anxiety Series
    • What Is Anxiety?
    • Making Lifestyle Changes
    • Mental Tactics
    • Natural Remedy
  • Hypochondria Series
    • What Is Hypochondria?
    • Building A Support System
    • Change The Way You Think
    • Change The Way You Feel

I am so happy to be sharing these series with you ❤ I pray that out of these 8 blog posts in total that it helps & supports some of you suffering like I do.

I will also be doing a 30 question blog post for my lovely followers to know me better ❤ Keep an eye out for that mid-May 🙂

Thank you to everyone for your ongoing support ❤ I wouldn’t have been here this long on wordpress if it wasn’t for all you lovely people 🙂 You are my MOTIVATION! Hands down, honest truth, scouts honour – YOU ALL TRULY ARE GREAT!

Wherever you are in the world, have a lovely day ❤

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