The Mystery Blogger Award

Hello loves, ❤

tmba2Thank you to Opinionating for nominating me for The Mystery Blogger Award ❤
She is a Sydney-sider (Like myself) who has an AMAZING blog ❤ Be sure to follow her – my favourite blog of hers is her SELF CARE one 🙂

What is Mystery Blogger Award?
“This is an award for amazing bloggers with indigenous posts. Their blog not only captivates; it inspires and motivates. They are one of the best out there, and they deserve every recognition they get. This award is also for bloggers who find fun and inspiration in blogging and they do it with so much love and passion.” – Okoto Enigma

Rules

  • Thank whoever nominated you and include link to their blog
  • Tell your readers 3 things about yourself
  • Nominate 10-20 bloggers you feel deserve the award
  • Answer the questions from the person who nominated you
  • Ask your nominees 5 questions of your choice with one weird or funny one
  • Notify your nominees by commenting on their blog

3 Things About Me: 

  1. I constantly have nail polish on my finger nails… ALWAYS!
  2. I have a really bad obsession with NUTELLA!
  3. I have a CRAZY love for the colour WHITE.

My Nominees:

My Answers:

  • What is your goal for 2018?
    • Oo, I have so many goals for 2018, they are:
      • Grow my hair & stop getting weird urges to cut it.
      • SAVE, SAVE, SAVE
      • Help B organise her dream wedding (& be the best maid of honour ever!)
      • Get myself in a good gym routine
  • If you could have coffee with one book character, who would it be?
    • It’ll have to be a hot chocolate, as I don’t drink coffee. But I’d love to have a hot beverage with… Cassie Mendoza Jones. I own both of her books AND.. I was in a live webinar with her the other day & I feel that I learnt a lot from her.
  • Where are you planning to travel to next? 
    • I am so glad you asked 🙂 I will be travelling to Europe in 2019 🙂
  • What is your favourite thing about yourself?
    • I love that I am such a lover, whether you are my family, friend or girlfriend – I will love hard & whole hardheartedly ❤
  • What would be one piece of advice you would want to give your younger self?
    • CARE ABOUT YOURSELF FIRST.

My Questions:

  1. What is your 2018 goal?
  2. What is one of your biggest accomplishments?
  3. If you could pack up & move, where would you go?
  4. Where do you see yourself in the next 5 years?
  5. What is one of your biggest fears?

I can’t wait to read all of your replies ❤

Wherever you are in the world, have a lovely day ❤

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TMI Tag

Hello loves, ❤

I was tagged by Eva from The Rain in the TMI Tag – this tag is a bunch of questions that I’ve been asked & I answer them for you all to get a better understanding of me ❤

Here I go:

  • What are you currently wearing?
    • I am wearing my 7/8 black flarry work pants & a polka dot top.
  • Have you ever been in love?
    • Hm, I would love to do a separate blog on this 🙂
  • Have you ever had a terrible breakup?
    • No, I have not.
  • How old are you?
    • 25
  • How tall are you?

    • I am 156cm, I am short 😛
  • How much do you weigh?
    • I weigh 53kgs
  • Do you have any piercings?
    • I have my ear lobes done & my tragus. I did have a lot more but I took them all out 🙂
  • What’s your favourite drink?
    • Oo, it’ll have to be a HOT CHOCOLATE 🙂
  • What’s you favourite song?
    • Oo, A New Day Has Come by Celine Dion
  • What’s your zodiac sign?
    • Scorpio – And, I am a Scorpio ALL OVER!
  • How long does it take you to shower?
    • I tend to take 15-20 mins 🙂
  • What’s your favourite show?
    • Oo, I loved Married at First Sight when it was on.
  • What’s your favourite band?
    • THE SCRIPT!
  • Something you really miss?
    • Being a little kid, where nothing in the world mattered.
  • Where do you go when you’re sad?
    • I love 2 places, a hill near my house, it’s so calm & peaceful. Or, Botany Bay National Park (The panoramic photo on my home page was taken there)
  • How long does it take you to get ready in the morning?
    • Oo, I can get ready in a good 10 mins, I HAVE GOTTEN PRO AT THIS.
  • Have you ever been in a physical fight?
    • Hm… Next question 😛
  • What turns you on?
    • Someone who is motivated & inspirational ❤
  • What turns you off?
    • Someone who is LAZY!
  • Qualities you look for in a partner?
    • A supporter, a lover, a comedian, a giver, a guider, ❤
  • What’s your favourite colour?
    • White
  • Loud music or soft?
    • Loud at the gym, soft when I am in bed ready to sleep.
  • Favourite quote?
    • You all know my favourite quote ‘God gives his hardest battles to his strongest soldiers’ ❤
  • Favourite actor?
    • KEANU REEVES, hands down!
  • Do you have any fears?
    • Dying. I do not know why I am so afraid 😦
  • What’s the last thing that made you cry?
    • An argument I was in with someone 😦
  • Last time you said you loved someone?
    • My mother ❤
  • Last book you read?
    • The Daily Positive by Dominique Bertolucci (My sister purchased me this book!)
  • The book you’re currently reading?
    • I am still reading the book mentioned above ❤
  • Last show you watched?
    • The last show I watched was the Commonwealth Games ❤
  • Last place you were?
    • On the train to work 😦 (Wish I could say an island in Europe)
  • Last sport you played?
    • Haha, I have no idea – Does the gym count?
  • Who’s the last person you talked to?
    • My mother ❤
  • The last song you sang?
    • Hold Me Together by Royal Tailor
  • Favourite chat up line?
    • Haha, I have no idea 😛
  • Do you have a crush?
    • Sure do 😛
  • The relationship between you and the person you last texted?
    • My mother ❤
  • Favourite food?
    • HALOUMI ❤
  • Place you want to visit?
    • Croatia, Greece, Italy, Switzerland, Amsterdam ❤
  • What’s the last time you kissed someone?
    • Kissed my father on this cheek this morning when leaving the house 🙂
  • Last time you were insulted?
    • Next question 😦
  • Favourite sweet?
    • Anything CHOCOLATE!
  • What instruments do you play?
    • Piano & guitar ❤
  • Favourite piece of jewellery?
    • My rosary beads ❤
  • Last time you hung out with anyone?
    • I hung out with my sister & her fiance last night ❤

That was FUN! Hehe, I hope you all got to know me a little better 🙂

I would love to nominate:

Searching For My Inner Zen

Gail Loves God

Sereneluna

Thriving Not Surviving

I can’t wait to see your answers ❤

Wherever you are in the world, have a lovely day ❤

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I Feel Like I Am Not Enough

Hello loves, ❤

I’m supposed to love myself, even if I’m single. Even if I keep getting my heart broken.

I wish I had more confidence in myself, but that’s not how my mind works. I am unsure. I am insecure. My self-worth wavers, depending on how you treat me on any given day.

When you compliment my hair or invite me over to your place or actually text me back without making me wait, I feel a surge of confidence. On those days, it’s easier to love myself.

The rest of the time — when you ignore my messages, don’t want to see me or don’t want to cuddle. I feel ugly. Stupid. Annoying.

The tiniest compliment from you can make my entire day. But the smallest slight can make my stomach drop and destroy my confidence.

You have the power to change my perception of myself. Your opinion of me impacts my opinion of myself.

When you hurt me, I can’t shrug it off. I can’t convince myself it’s no big deal. When you hurt me, I break down. I freak out. I feel insignificant. I feel inferior.

You might not mean to impact my self-esteem, but your actions have consequences. Either I’m excited about how well our conversation just went or I’m annoyed about how distant you have been acting.

There are some days when you boost my confidence, but most of the time, you make me feel like I am not enough. You make me feel like I have been doing something wrong. You make me feel like I am not worth your time.

I hate how much I care about whether or not you like me back. I hate how seeing your name pop up on my phone brings me butterflies and being ignored by you sinks my stomach. I hate having such strong feelings for you.

I know my self-worth is not supposed to depend on some boy. I am trying my hardest to appreciate myself, to love myself, to take good care of myself even if you fail to see my value. I am working my ass off to become a better, stronger person. A person who actually likes the girl staring back in the mirror.

But I would be lying if I said that your opinion doesn’t make a difference to me. It matters more than anyone else’s does. It matters so much more than it should.

Wherever you are in the world, have a lovely day ❤

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