Hello loves ❤
“If you ever find yourself in the wrong story, leave.” ― Mo Willems.
You’re allowed to leave any story you don’t find yourself in. You’re allowed to leave any story you don’t love yourself in.
You’re allowed to leave a city that has dimmed your light instead of making you shine brighter, you’re allowed to pack all your bags and start over somewhere else and you’re allowed to redefine the meaning of your life.
You’re allowed to quit the job you hate even if the world tells you not to and you’re allowed to search for something that makes you look forward to tomorrow and to the rest of your life.
You’re allowed to leave someone you love if they’re treating you poorly, you’re allowed to put yourself first if you’re settling and you’re allowed to walk away when you’ve tried over and over again but nothing has changed.
You’re allowed to let toxic friends go, you’re allowed to surround yourself with love, and people who encourage and nurture you. You’re allowed to pick the kind of energy you need in your life.
You’re allowed to forgive yourself for your biggest and smallest mistakes and you’re allowed to be kind to yourself, you’re allowed to look in the mirror and actually like the person you see.
You’re allowed to set yourself free from your own expectations.
We sometimes look at leaving as a bad thing or associate it with giving up or quitting, but sometimes leaving is the best thing you can do for yourself.
Leaving allows you to change directions, to start over, to rediscover yourself and the world. Leaving sometimes saves you from staying stuck in the wrong place with the wrong people.
Leaving opens a new door for change, growth, opportunities and redemption.
You always have the choice to leave until you find where you belong and what makes you happy.
You’re even allowed to leave the old you behind and reinvent yourself.
Wherever you are in the world, have a lovely day ❤
Reblogged this on Emerging From The Dark Night and commented:
For anyone who had ever felt stuck and as if they have no right or power of choice.
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Thank you so much ❤
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Reblogged this on gaillovesgod and commented:
I wish I had read this so many years ago! ❤
So many people need to know it's OK to leave…
Sometimes what'd even best.
Thank you, Miss Lovely! ❤ God bless you!
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Bless you Gail ❤
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❤ God bless you and the message that so many need to hear.
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Yasssssssss I hear this! We are allowed to live our truest version of ourselves. I touch on this in a different (weirder haha) way here https://bit.ly/2H5FkEx if anyone fancies a look.
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Thank you so much – I’ll be sure to have a look at your link ❤
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Oh, and sometimes leaving just feels good. I think we are all in a process of finding complementary energy at the present time.
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We truly are ❤
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Yes, we are allowed to leave!!
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We come first ❤
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Absolutely!
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Love this, beautifully written.
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Bless you ❤
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Absolutely love this!
https://itsnotmeitsyou.blog/
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Thank you ❤
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Thank you. I needed to hear that in this dreary Monday morning that’s supposed to be spring here in Central PA but is acting more like winter.🙏
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I am happy this came to you when you needed to hear it ❤
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Thank you. 🙏
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🙌🏻 So true!! So many of my decisions have been the opposite of what I was told I could/couldn’t do and every time my choice has proven to be the best one. Do what feels right and even if it doesn’t seem good in the beginning it will always works out in the end 😊
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Thank you – I truly needed that right now ❤
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Wow – thank you for sharing your thoughts! I just moved across the country to start over and this is the best decision I could have made for my mental health.
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I am so happy to hear that – all this best on your new beginning<3
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Thank you for re-blogging ❤
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Reblogging to SIWO 😊
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💖 Yes, taking the risk and diving into a new life allows you to free yourself of the bonds that hold you back. I moved from Los Angeles to New York in the 90’s, and it changed my life for the better in so many ways.
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I am so happy to hear that these leaps was amazing for you ❤
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