Hello loves ❤
Being faithful means more than keeping your hands to yourself. It means more than only sleeping with one person, only kissing one person, only being physically involved with one person.
Being faithful means that you delete your Tinder and any other dating apps on your phone, because you don’t need them anymore. Because you don’t need backup plans. Because you’re happy with the person that you’re dating and would never dream of cheating on them.
Being faithful means putting an end to any flirting that becomes too intense. It means telling the guy hitting on you at the gym that you’re in a relationship. It means making it clear that you aren’t interested in him.
Being faithful means keeping your wedding ring on or keeping your relationship status public so everyone knows you’re taken, instead of purposely trying to make other people think that you’re single so that they treat you differently. So that you still get checked out and receive miniature confidence boosts.
Being faithful means being honest with your person about the fact that you ran into your ex during your lunch break or that some guy at the gym asked you for your number. It means being open, even when the truth makes you uncomfortable, because you believe that your person deserves to know what really happened.
Being faithful means knowing what your person is not okay with, what they would consider being disloyal, and never crossing that line.
But if you start hiding texts from your person, because you know that they would get upset if they found out about what you’ve been saying to some other girl — if you leave several inappropriate, sexual comments underneath another girl’s picture — if you treat your female friend exactly the same as your girlfriend, then something is seriously wrong.
Maybe you’re not technically cheating, but you’re coming close enough. Close enough for your girlfriend to worry. Close enough to hurt the person who loves you more than anything.
Remember, being faithful means more than never letting another person into your bed. It means never letting another person in your heart.
Being faithful means deciding that your love for this one person outweighs your desire to be with any other person on the planet. It means that you’ve decided you’ve found the person you’re meant to spend the rest of your life with and you aren’t going to do anything to mess it up.
Wherever you are in the world, have a lovely day ❤
Thats so true …the person whom we are faithfull with, we should never hide anything from them. That is not good never. Build a relationship which is more like being best friends. In this way you can share almost everything with your loved ones like we usually do with friends. A relation which is based on friendship will lead you to open up ur hearts more easily than any thing else…so be frank n keep loving 😄😄😄😄
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I love this. Thank you for sharing your thoughts about my blog post.
I couldn’t agree w/ you more 😘😘😘😘😘😘
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“Most men will proclaim every one his own goodness: but a faithful man who can find?”
-Proverbs 20:6 KJV
How touching to see (or read) your growth. How precious to see Him at work in you! ❤
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Thank you my lovely Gail 💘💘💘💘
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Lovely! Reblogging now
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Thank you for re-blogging 😘😘😘😘
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But beware all tjkse faithful people out there , some assholes will destroy your faith and will make sure you never believe in love again !!
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I believe that also – people’s actions can change the way your heart feels & it can mentally scar you.
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this is such a powerful post and lovely written! being faithful should come natural in a healthy relationship:)
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It most certainly should come natural & if it doesn’t, you are not ready for a relationship.
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Very true and real.
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Thank you ❤️❤️❤️❤️
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Excellently put. I unfortunately know this too well but it’s reassuring to see there are other people who truly believe in being faithful.
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I am happy we think the same way 😘😘😘😘😘
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Great post!!
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Thank you so much.
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Exactly! All affairs start with innocent flirting. Like you said, if your significant other would be upset if he knew, then you shouldn’t be doing it.
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I’m happy to hear you feel the same way.
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This is nice.
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