Taking Care of Myself

Hello loves ❤

I am starting to learn that you are your own best friend ❤

I am slowly learning to rely more heavily on myself, because no one else is going to take care of me. Growing older means I can no longer ask my parents or my friends to fight my battles for me. I cannot expect them to go out of their way for me when they have their own issues to deal with on a daily basis. I am self-reliant. I am a survivor. I am capable of protecting myself, caring for myself, loving myself. It is up to me to shape my world into something of value. I cannot ask anyone else to do that for me.

I am slowly learning to accept my insecurities. Instead of arguing with my reflection, I have made amends. I look at myself and see past the parts of my body that bring out my deepest insecurities. Instead, I focus on the soul beneath the skin. The personality hidden three layers deep.

I am slowly learning to take responsibility for my actions instead of displacing the blame. My automatic response to something that I caused to go wrong is no longer to yell about someone else screwing me over. From now on, I am acknowledging my own role in the situation and admitting that I could have handled things better. That does not mean I blame myself. It means I am no longer going to see myself as a victim who has things happen to her. It means I see myself as someone with power who has the potential to change situations for better or for worse.

I am slowly learning to deal with my emotions in the healthiest way possible. Instead of reaching for a bottle when my day brings unwanted stress, I reach for a friend. I search for a kindred spirit to talk things through with, whether it’s someone I can meet for coffee face-to-face or a stranger from a group I’ve found online. I run toward someone, anyone, who understands my situation, who has been in a similar situation, to help myself feel a little less alone.

I am slowly learning to take care of myself, both in complicated ways and in basic ways. I am keeping my laundry folded in their drawers instead of tossing them onto carpets and tables. I am washing the makeup from my face at night instead of letting my laziness win and leaving it. I am answering my emails when they arrive instead of putting it off until later. I am eating right and exercising and staying far away from my triggers. I am doing my best to become my best.

I am slowly learning to strike a balance between being selfish and selfless. I am determined to place myself first from now on, but I cannot sacrifice my kindness in the process. I will still be there for friends. I will still be there for my family. But I will also be there for myself. I will love myself. I will pamper myself. I will take responsibility for myself.
Wherever you are in the world, have a lovely day ❤

A, x (1)

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Hello, my name is Anita, I am a 23 year old Croatian girl who loves reading self development books & following others blogs. Having said that, I have decided to create a site that consist of sharing my hobbies daily blogs, daily affirmations, healthy recipes, DIY projects, places I travel to etc. Discovering Your Happiness has a goal of sharing my happiness with you to help you discover your happiness also.

20 thoughts on “Taking Care of Myself”

  1. Changing myself was the best thing that has happened to me. It brought me to a whole new place in my life where even though things were still complicated I at least finally took control of myself personally. Personal happiness is always the first step and honestly I think the key to reaching your dreams and success. Very nice post by the way the link belowe is about my journey if you are interested. I have several new posts about self discovery and and the realities of life and lifestyle here is the one that specifies some of the more pivotal points that got me where I am today. Feel free to comment and share your experience as well 😊 https://crazybeautifulblogs.wordpress.com/2018/03/28/steps-i-took-to-free-myself-from-me-2/

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      1. Thanks, its been quite the adventure, to say the least LOL. Every day is working progress towards whatever my tomorrows bring but I have an excellent plan set in action. and 1 Step at a Time I keep building towards my grand plan. Which brings me a lot of joy.

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  2. Taking care of yourself is a very wise and loving thing to do for you and the One who loved you enough to make you a very unique YOU!
    Oh and arguing with your reflection can be entertaining and make for an interesting conversation! I mean, who knows you better 😉 (other than Him of course)

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  3. I think it is more than having to rely on oneself. The most important thing is knowing that you can rely on yourself, that you are capable of so many things, and that while it is great to get help from people, you can do it by yourself if you need to.

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