You Are NOT Lonely

Hello loves,  ❤

 

I don’t know how love happens, and I don’t know how or why people find it, but I know that not having it doesn’t have to make you feel so empty. I know that being alone shouldn’t make you feel like you need to search for love even harder. It shouldn’t make you feel like you’re just not trying hard enough, or that maybe you’re just not good enough, not good enough to find love and not good enough to keep it.

 

Love doesn’t have to always be prioritized. It doesn’t have to be worried about and keep you up all through the night wondering if you’ll ever find it, or if you’ll be alone forever.

 

Sometimes the amount of pressure we put on ourselves to find love is unbearable, and love doesn’t have to be something that feels so pressured. Love doesn’t have to be the shadow that’s always there, reminding you that you’re alone, that you don’t have a hand to hold or a shoulder to cry on. Love doesn’t have to make us feel so utterly deprived. It’s like when we have it we’re so over the moon excited, and if we don’t we’re lonely and feel sorry for ourselves. You don’t have to feel sorry for yourself for not loving someone, for not having someone love you. It seems love only makes us feel this way when we forget about ourselves.

 

Because not having someone to love doesn’t have to make you feel hopeless. It doesn’t have to make you feel pathetic either. I hope you realize that being alone gives you all the time in the world to focus on the person who really matters. Being alone means you can do things by yourself, for yourself, and you don’t have to feel sad that after you do them you’re left with just you. To be on your own takes strength. It means you have the courage to face loneliness head on, and when it creeps up on you, you allow yourself to feel it.

 

When you don’t have someone to love loneliness is the one thing that tries to threaten you, it tries to make you feel small, and unimportant. But please realize that when you don’t have someone to love, you’re allowed to feel lonely. You’re allowed to pour yourself a glass of wine, and wish someone’s empty glass was there waiting for you to pour them one too. You’re allowed to lay in bed reading that book you just bought that smells like unread pages, and wish someone was laying there next to you. You don’t have to hide the loneliness or pretend it’s not there, but you don’t have to let it make you feel pressured to find something that’s honestly not even supposed to be found.

 

You’ll be okay on your own. I believe in you. You don’t need to find love to feel good about yourself.

 

Wherever you are in the world, have a lovely day ❤

A, x (1)

It Took 1 Day! (33,000 Views)

Hello my loves ❤

Hope you are all having a lovely day – It’s Wednesday morning here in Sydney, Australia.

I had a beautiful day yesterday, working that spending some quality time w/ Rach, we than hung out & went to the gym, made the most delicious smoothie than went to sleep & travelled into work together today ❤

My smoothie was filled w/ blackberries, blueberries, raspberries, strawberries, banana & coconut water – IT WAS THE MOST DELICIOUS THING EVER! Smoothies take me to another place, I truly feel so good when having smoothies. EVEN HAD ONE THIS MORNING, AS A MATTER OF FACT. Same ingredients, it was AMAZING!

Wow, we are here AGAIN! 1000 view in ONE day! WHAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAT?!?!?!?! I cannot believe it. The two believe posts have sky rocketed w/ views:

I love that so many of my followers have been doing the reply blog w/ their answers too ❤ I love it! Check out: Girl On A Cloud Blog – She has done a reply blog on this! I love reading all the answers by you all, lets me learn more about my followers.

I am so gobbsmacked. 33,000 views, whooooooah. God has blessed me with all you beautiful people & I couldn’t be more grateful – Thank you from the bottom of my heart for all the views, love, kindness, support, guidance. I have been able to be myself on my blog & not worrying about what people think. Instead of writing gibberish, I tend to write things I am going through, I have let you all in to my life to see the way I feel + also what I get up to & I love that I have opened up to you all.

I never thought I would be here on this blog 18 months later still blogging – I honestly thought that I would make a blog & just post on it sometimes & if I get views I’ll be grateful for those that what to read my blog.

18 months later we are 33,000 views in AND I couldn’t be more grateful. 

You all mean the world to me ❤

SOOOOOO… I am soooo behind in some of my posts BUT my main focus is to get the below posts up;

  • My Birthday Blog
  • My Room Tour

I am so behind in my birthday blog, there is just so much I want to write & so much content to put up. MY GOAL IS TO GET IT DONE TODAY.

I have a few blog award posts to put up too! I will get this done #determined

Hope you are all having a lovely week ❤

Wherever you are in the world, have a lovely day ❤

A, x (1)