Find Out Who You Are (My Answers)

Hello loves, ❤

Hope you are all well 🙂

Here is my answers to the 56 questions post that I had posted yesterday. (Happy for you to learn a little bit more about me)

  • Do I believe that everything is meant to be, or do I think that things just tend to happen for no reason at all?
    • I believe that EVERYTHING happens for a reason, everything we encounter, experience & go through is for a reason. Whether theat’d be a lesson learnt or even to teach us a lesson. 
  • Do I forgive and forget? Or do I forgive, but always remember?
    • Oo, I find it hard to forgive, I hold grudges… ALOT! If I do ever forgive, I NEVER forget.
  • If I could give one piece of advice to everyone in the world, what would it be?
    • Your mind is powerful, it can heal you as much as it can harm you. 
  • Do I think that people can change, or that they just are who they are?
    • I am a firm believer of ‘a leopard does not change their spots’  I believe people can change but that can just be an act, they can change for a little while but deep down they will always be who they are. 
  • Would I consider myself to be religious or spiritual?
    • I am a religious believer ❤
  • Would my 10-year-old self be proud of me?
    • I think so :S
  • What do I think is the best revenge?
    • Silence & happiness has to be the BEST revenge.
  • What would I change about myself?
    • My thought pattern, my anxiety & my insecurities. 
  • On the flip side, what would I never change about myself?
    • My heart, my soul, my kindness.
  • Can I confidently say that the path I am on in life right now is the one that I (and no one else) would want for myself?
    • Yes, as mentioned above ‘everything happens for a reason’ I’ve been taken down this path for a reason & I have learnt many things along to way. I’ve learnt more in the last 3-4 years than I have in my own life. 
  • It’s the year 2040. Where am I?
    • I’ll be 47 years old, so I pray to be married to the love of my life with a family living happily ever after.
  • Am I a morning person or a night owl?
    • I am most def a morning person! Haha, I can fall asleep at 7:00pm, I cannot stay awake at night BUT… the morning, I am up w/ the birds 🙂
  • Would I consider myself to be more creative or more logical?
    • Logical ❤
  • What could I do to be a healthier person?
    • Be in more of a food routine & a gym routine, I tend to just go when ever etc so if I was more strict with that, I would like that. 
  • If time and money were no object, what would I do with my life?
    • Focus on being happy w/ the life I live & ensuring those around me are happy w/ their life. 
  • Is it all about luck or hard work?
    • I believe it is most certainly hard work – No one ever got any where within the click of a finger. 
  • Should I live with no regrets, or learn from my mistakes?
    • Def learn from mistakes, it makes you aware & cautious for your future steps. 
  • How would I describe myself in only five words?
    • Honest, trustworthy, kind, loving, ambitious. 
  • Family first, true or false?
    • Most certainly FAMILY FIRST.
  • Can discipline be learned?
    • Yes & no, I really think it is depending on the person. 
  • Am I as loyal as I think I am?
    • Yes! 
  • How could people be a better friend to me?
    • Learn to understand me, I am just a big ball of confusion, so I would most certainly love to be understood more. 
  • How could I be a better friend to people?
    • I would listen more, I would ask how they are, I would want to be there for them the same way they are for me. 
  • Is conformity a good thing or a bad thing?
    • I feel that it can be a good AND a bad thing.
  • What is a book I read that completely changed my outlook on life?
    • The Secret by Rhonda Byrne.
  • How can I be generous when I am not rich?
    • By giving, by listening, by providing, by supporting, by guiding. 
  • How can I improve dialogue and communication with those I deeply disagree with?
    • Be more empathetic.
  • If I had to make a list of my top 10 most important values, what would they be?
    • Honesty
    • Loyalty
    • Motivation
    • Passion
    • Respect
    • Courage
    • Innovation
    • Creativity
    • Optimisim
    • Consistency
  • What are my deal breakers for romantic relationships?
    • Lying
    • Cheating
    • Disrespecting
    • Being deceitful
    • Hiding things
  • Do I love myself?
    • At the moment, no I do not – But I am on a journey of loving myself. 
  • If not, how could I find a way to love myself?
    • Accepting myself for who I am, learning to love my insecurities. 
  • Is trust always earned, or is it a given until it’s broken?
    • Trust is given, until it is broken than from there you are not trusted. 
  • If I could apologize to one person, who would it be?
    • Myself. For putting my self through hardships for quite some time whilst being able to get out of these things rather staying in them & torturing myself. 
  • And what would I say to that person
    • I am so sorry for torturing you, this time is now all yours, you are living the life you want moving forward. 
  • If I was able to say one thing to my ex, what would I say?
    • N/A
  • If I could have one person apologize to me, who would it be?
    • A very dear friend 😦
  • And what would I want them to say?
    • I am sorry, Anita – I was just in a bad place. 
  • Do I ghost people or do I give them a reason for breaking ties?
    • I feel this depends, sometimes I ghost but if I am angry I will tend to share my thoughts. 
  • Do I believe in karma?
    • Yes, more than evvvvvvvvvvver!
  • How do I show I am angry?
    • Through anger, frustration, sadness, crying. 
  • In my opinion, what are my greatest strengths?
    • Warm
    • Thoughtful
    • Spontaneous
    • Adventurous
    • Helping
    • Inspiring
  • In my opinion, what are my greatest weaknesses?
    • Impatient
    • Stubborn
    • Complaining
    • Controlling
    • Selfish
  • If I could go anywhere in the world, where would I go?
    • Greece, or even just somewhere in Europe by the beach.
  •  Is work-life balance important to me?
    • Most certainly yes, I know for a fact that I need to work on this more too. 
  • Is family important to me?
    • Yes they are – I love to keep my family close to me. 
  • Is friendship important to me?
    • Yes, I am def a ‘quality over quantity’ person. 
  • Is romantic love important to me?
    • Most certainly – romantic love to me means soooooo much to me.
  • If I could have one talent, what would it be?
    • Oh lord, I have no idea – Maybe to be able to do the splits. 
  • What is one part of my life I miss and why?
    • Being a kid whereby nothing mattered & life was carefree. I miss riding my bike at my old place & playing games w/ my dad. 
  • What are elements from that time I could incorporate into my present?
    • Spending time w/ my father now & also ensuring I am letting my family know how much I love them ( I don’t do this enough)
  • Do actions really speak louder than words?
    • YESSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS! My lord, this one is DEF the truth! People can talk the talk (that is easy) however when they have to meet this w/ their actions I notice people tend to struggle w/ this. 
  • Am I happy with my career?
    • I can finally say YES! I have had my fair share of crappy jobs, I can finally say I am happy now w/ my career. 
  • If not, what could I change about my job to be happier and more satisfied?
    • I feel it is what you make it, you need to make it fun. If you walk in with a negative attitude you’ll have a crappy day. You are what you think.
  • What’s more important to me, self respect or being right?
    • Def self respect – I am more than happy to admit I am wrong, I would much rather be able to sleep at night. 
  • Do I learn from the past or live in the past?
    • I most certainly learn from my past, what I experience & also the lessons I have learnt. 
  • When I die, what do I want to be remembered for?
    • Being someone who helped others, cared for others, had a heart of gold, would do anything for her family & friends.


I hope you feel you’ve gotten to know me more now 🙂

Wherever you are in the world, have a lovely day ❤

A, x (1)

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Hello, my name is Anita, I am a 23 year old Croatian girl who loves reading self development books & following others blogs. Having said that, I have decided to create a site that consist of sharing my hobbies daily blogs, daily affirmations, healthy recipes, DIY projects, places I travel to etc. Discovering Your Happiness has a goal of sharing my happiness with you to help you discover your happiness also.

22 thoughts on “Find Out Who You Are (My Answers)”

  1. Loving reading your post, Lovely A! God is making you stronger every day! While keeping you just as loving as ever! Happiness will not escape you! God loves you! ❤
    PS. I will do your post too! Just for you!

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