Hello loves, ❤
Hope you are all well 🙂
Here is my answers to the 56 questions post that I had posted yesterday. (Happy for you to learn a little bit more about me)
- Do I believe that everything is meant to be, or do I think that things just tend to happen for no reason at all?
- I believe that EVERYTHING happens for a reason, everything we encounter, experience & go through is for a reason. Whether theat’d be a lesson learnt or even to teach us a lesson.
- Do I forgive and forget? Or do I forgive, but always remember?
- Oo, I find it hard to forgive, I hold grudges… ALOT! If I do ever forgive, I NEVER forget.
- If I could give one piece of advice to everyone in the world, what would it be?
- Your mind is powerful, it can heal you as much as it can harm you.
- Do I think that people can change, or that they just are who they are?
- I am a firm believer of ‘a leopard does not change their spots’ I believe people can change but that can just be an act, they can change for a little while but deep down they will always be who they are.
- Would I consider myself to be religious or spiritual?
- I am a religious believer ❤
- Would my 10-year-old self be proud of me?
- I think so :S
- What do I think is the best revenge?
- Silence & happiness has to be the BEST revenge.
- What would I change about myself?
- My thought pattern, my anxiety & my insecurities.
- On the flip side, what would I never change about myself?
- My heart, my soul, my kindness.
- Can I confidently say that the path I am on in life right now is the one that I (and no one else) would want for myself?
- Yes, as mentioned above ‘everything happens for a reason’ I’ve been taken down this path for a reason & I have learnt many things along to way. I’ve learnt more in the last 3-4 years than I have in my own life.
- It’s the year 2040. Where am I?
- I’ll be 47 years old, so I pray to be married to the love of my life with a family living happily ever after.
- Am I a morning person or a night owl?
- I am most def a morning person! Haha, I can fall asleep at 7:00pm, I cannot stay awake at night BUT… the morning, I am up w/ the birds 🙂
- Would I consider myself to be more creative or more logical?
- Logical ❤
- What could I do to be a healthier person?
- Be in more of a food routine & a gym routine, I tend to just go when ever etc so if I was more strict with that, I would like that.
- If time and money were no object, what would I do with my life?
- Focus on being happy w/ the life I live & ensuring those around me are happy w/ their life.
- Is it all about luck or hard work?
- I believe it is most certainly hard work – No one ever got any where within the click of a finger.
- Should I live with no regrets, or learn from my mistakes?
- Def learn from mistakes, it makes you aware & cautious for your future steps.
- How would I describe myself in only five words?
- Honest, trustworthy, kind, loving, ambitious.
- Family first, true or false?
- Most certainly FAMILY FIRST.
- Can discipline be learned?
- Yes & no, I really think it is depending on the person.
- Am I as loyal as I think I am?
- Yes!
- How could people be a better friend to me?
- Learn to understand me, I am just a big ball of confusion, so I would most certainly love to be understood more.
- How could I be a better friend to people?
- I would listen more, I would ask how they are, I would want to be there for them the same way they are for me.
- Is conformity a good thing or a bad thing?
- I feel that it can be a good AND a bad thing.
- What is a book I read that completely changed my outlook on life?
- The Secret by Rhonda Byrne.
- How can I be generous when I am not rich?
- By giving, by listening, by providing, by supporting, by guiding.
- How can I improve dialogue and communication with those I deeply disagree with?
- Be more empathetic.
- If I had to make a list of my top 10 most important values, what would they be?
- Honesty
- Loyalty
- Motivation
- Passion
- Respect
- Courage
- Innovation
- Creativity
- Optimisim
- Consistency
- What are my deal breakers for romantic relationships?
- Lying
- Cheating
- Disrespecting
- Being deceitful
- Hiding things
- Do I love myself?
- At the moment, no I do not – But I am on a journey of loving myself.
- If not, how could I find a way to love myself?
- Accepting myself for who I am, learning to love my insecurities.
- Is trust always earned, or is it a given until it’s broken?
- Trust is given, until it is broken than from there you are not trusted.
- If I could apologize to one person, who would it be?
- Myself. For putting my self through hardships for quite some time whilst being able to get out of these things rather staying in them & torturing myself.
- And what would I say to that person
- I am so sorry for torturing you, this time is now all yours, you are living the life you want moving forward.
- If I was able to say one thing to my ex, what would I say?
- N/A
- If I could have one person apologize to me, who would it be?
- A very dear friend 😦
- And what would I want them to say?
- I am sorry, Anita – I was just in a bad place.
- Do I ghost people or do I give them a reason for breaking ties?
- I feel this depends, sometimes I ghost but if I am angry I will tend to share my thoughts.
- Do I believe in karma?
- Yes, more than evvvvvvvvvvver!
- How do I show I am angry?
- Through anger, frustration, sadness, crying.
- In my opinion, what are my greatest strengths?
- Warm
- Thoughtful
- Spontaneous
- Adventurous
- Helping
- Inspiring
- In my opinion, what are my greatest weaknesses?
- Impatient
- Stubborn
- Complaining
- Controlling
- Selfish
- If I could go anywhere in the world, where would I go?
- Greece, or even just somewhere in Europe by the beach.
- Is work-life balance important to me?
- Most certainly yes, I know for a fact that I need to work on this more too.
- Is family important to me?
- Yes they are – I love to keep my family close to me.
- Is friendship important to me?
- Yes, I am def a ‘quality over quantity’ person.
- Is romantic love important to me?
- Most certainly – romantic love to me means soooooo much to me.
- If I could have one talent, what would it be?
- Oh lord, I have no idea – Maybe to be able to do the splits.
- What is one part of my life I miss and why?
- Being a kid whereby nothing mattered & life was carefree. I miss riding my bike at my old place & playing games w/ my dad.
- What are elements from that time I could incorporate into my present?
- Spending time w/ my father now & also ensuring I am letting my family know how much I love them ( I don’t do this enough)
- Do actions really speak louder than words?
- YESSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS! My lord, this one is DEF the truth! People can talk the talk (that is easy) however when they have to meet this w/ their actions I notice people tend to struggle w/ this.
- Am I happy with my career?
- I can finally say YES! I have had my fair share of crappy jobs, I can finally say I am happy now w/ my career.
- If not, what could I change about my job to be happier and more satisfied?
- I feel it is what you make it, you need to make it fun. If you walk in with a negative attitude you’ll have a crappy day. You are what you think.
- What’s more important to me, self respect or being right?
- Def self respect – I am more than happy to admit I am wrong, I would much rather be able to sleep at night.
- Do I learn from the past or live in the past?
- I most certainly learn from my past, what I experience & also the lessons I have learnt.
- When I die, what do I want to be remembered for?
- Being someone who helped others, cared for others, had a heart of gold, would do anything for her family & friends.
I hope you feel you’ve gotten to know me more now 🙂
Wherever you are in the world, have a lovely day ❤
