Find Out Who You Are (My Answers)

Hello loves, ❤

Hope you are all well 🙂

Here is my answers to the 56 questions post that I had posted yesterday. (Happy for you to learn a little bit more about me)

  • Do I believe that everything is meant to be, or do I think that things just tend to happen for no reason at all?
    • I believe that EVERYTHING happens for a reason, everything we encounter, experience & go through is for a reason. Whether theat’d be a lesson learnt or even to teach us a lesson. 
  • Do I forgive and forget? Or do I forgive, but always remember?
    • Oo, I find it hard to forgive, I hold grudges… ALOT! If I do ever forgive, I NEVER forget.
  • If I could give one piece of advice to everyone in the world, what would it be?
    • Your mind is powerful, it can heal you as much as it can harm you. 
  • Do I think that people can change, or that they just are who they are?
    • I am a firm believer of ‘a leopard does not change their spots’  I believe people can change but that can just be an act, they can change for a little while but deep down they will always be who they are. 
  • Would I consider myself to be religious or spiritual?
    • I am a religious believer ❤
  • Would my 10-year-old self be proud of me?
    • I think so :S
  • What do I think is the best revenge?
    • Silence & happiness has to be the BEST revenge.
  • What would I change about myself?
    • My thought pattern, my anxiety & my insecurities. 
  • On the flip side, what would I never change about myself?
    • My heart, my soul, my kindness.
  • Can I confidently say that the path I am on in life right now is the one that I (and no one else) would want for myself?
    • Yes, as mentioned above ‘everything happens for a reason’ I’ve been taken down this path for a reason & I have learnt many things along to way. I’ve learnt more in the last 3-4 years than I have in my own life. 
  • It’s the year 2040. Where am I?
    • I’ll be 47 years old, so I pray to be married to the love of my life with a family living happily ever after.
  • Am I a morning person or a night owl?
    • I am most def a morning person! Haha, I can fall asleep at 7:00pm, I cannot stay awake at night BUT… the morning, I am up w/ the birds 🙂
  • Would I consider myself to be more creative or more logical?
    • Logical ❤
  • What could I do to be a healthier person?
    • Be in more of a food routine & a gym routine, I tend to just go when ever etc so if I was more strict with that, I would like that. 
  • If time and money were no object, what would I do with my life?
    • Focus on being happy w/ the life I live & ensuring those around me are happy w/ their life. 
  • Is it all about luck or hard work?
    • I believe it is most certainly hard work – No one ever got any where within the click of a finger. 
  • Should I live with no regrets, or learn from my mistakes?
    • Def learn from mistakes, it makes you aware & cautious for your future steps. 
  • How would I describe myself in only five words?
    • Honest, trustworthy, kind, loving, ambitious. 
  • Family first, true or false?
    • Most certainly FAMILY FIRST.
  • Can discipline be learned?
    • Yes & no, I really think it is depending on the person. 
  • Am I as loyal as I think I am?
    • Yes! 
  • How could people be a better friend to me?
    • Learn to understand me, I am just a big ball of confusion, so I would most certainly love to be understood more. 
  • How could I be a better friend to people?
    • I would listen more, I would ask how they are, I would want to be there for them the same way they are for me. 
  • Is conformity a good thing or a bad thing?
    • I feel that it can be a good AND a bad thing.
  • What is a book I read that completely changed my outlook on life?
    • The Secret by Rhonda Byrne.
  • How can I be generous when I am not rich?
    • By giving, by listening, by providing, by supporting, by guiding. 
  • How can I improve dialogue and communication with those I deeply disagree with?
    • Be more empathetic.
  • If I had to make a list of my top 10 most important values, what would they be?
    • Honesty
    • Loyalty
    • Motivation
    • Passion
    • Respect
    • Courage
    • Innovation
    • Creativity
    • Optimisim
    • Consistency
  • What are my deal breakers for romantic relationships?
    • Lying
    • Cheating
    • Disrespecting
    • Being deceitful
    • Hiding things
  • Do I love myself?
    • At the moment, no I do not – But I am on a journey of loving myself. 
  • If not, how could I find a way to love myself?
    • Accepting myself for who I am, learning to love my insecurities. 
  • Is trust always earned, or is it a given until it’s broken?
    • Trust is given, until it is broken than from there you are not trusted. 
  • If I could apologize to one person, who would it be?
    • Myself. For putting my self through hardships for quite some time whilst being able to get out of these things rather staying in them & torturing myself. 
  • And what would I say to that person
    • I am so sorry for torturing you, this time is now all yours, you are living the life you want moving forward. 
  • If I was able to say one thing to my ex, what would I say?
    • N/A
  • If I could have one person apologize to me, who would it be?
    • A very dear friend 😦
  • And what would I want them to say?
    • I am sorry, Anita – I was just in a bad place. 
  • Do I ghost people or do I give them a reason for breaking ties?
    • I feel this depends, sometimes I ghost but if I am angry I will tend to share my thoughts. 
  • Do I believe in karma?
    • Yes, more than evvvvvvvvvvver!
  • How do I show I am angry?
    • Through anger, frustration, sadness, crying. 
  • In my opinion, what are my greatest strengths?
    • Warm
    • Thoughtful
    • Spontaneous
    • Adventurous
    • Helping
    • Inspiring
  • In my opinion, what are my greatest weaknesses?
    • Impatient
    • Stubborn
    • Complaining
    • Controlling
    • Selfish
  • If I could go anywhere in the world, where would I go?
    • Greece, or even just somewhere in Europe by the beach.
  •  Is work-life balance important to me?
    • Most certainly yes, I know for a fact that I need to work on this more too. 
  • Is family important to me?
    • Yes they are – I love to keep my family close to me. 
  • Is friendship important to me?
    • Yes, I am def a ‘quality over quantity’ person. 
  • Is romantic love important to me?
    • Most certainly – romantic love to me means soooooo much to me.
  • If I could have one talent, what would it be?
    • Oh lord, I have no idea – Maybe to be able to do the splits. 
  • What is one part of my life I miss and why?
    • Being a kid whereby nothing mattered & life was carefree. I miss riding my bike at my old place & playing games w/ my dad. 
  • What are elements from that time I could incorporate into my present?
    • Spending time w/ my father now & also ensuring I am letting my family know how much I love them ( I don’t do this enough)
  • Do actions really speak louder than words?
    • YESSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS! My lord, this one is DEF the truth! People can talk the talk (that is easy) however when they have to meet this w/ their actions I notice people tend to struggle w/ this. 
  • Am I happy with my career?
    • I can finally say YES! I have had my fair share of crappy jobs, I can finally say I am happy now w/ my career. 
  • If not, what could I change about my job to be happier and more satisfied?
    • I feel it is what you make it, you need to make it fun. If you walk in with a negative attitude you’ll have a crappy day. You are what you think.
  • What’s more important to me, self respect or being right?
    • Def self respect – I am more than happy to admit I am wrong, I would much rather be able to sleep at night. 
  • Do I learn from the past or live in the past?
    • I most certainly learn from my past, what I experience & also the lessons I have learnt. 
  • When I die, what do I want to be remembered for?
    • Being someone who helped others, cared for others, had a heart of gold, would do anything for her family & friends.


I hope you feel you’ve gotten to know me more now 🙂

Wherever you are in the world, have a lovely day ❤

A, x (1)

It Took 4 Days (32,000 Views)

Hello lovely people, ❤

Ahhhhhhh, here we are again – another view blog. Wow, 32,000 views, I cannot believe we have gotten here in 18 months.

Wow, 32,000 views in 18 months. I am gobbsmacked & surprised at how far myself & my blog has come. To just sharing thoughts to now impacting over thousands of people around the world means the world to me, you have no idea.

I love how close I have gotten to all of you, I love that you all interact with me so much & I love since putting my email address on my home page SOOOO many of you email me & I absolutely love it, whether its just emails that share how much you love my page or even being e-pals, I am loving it.

I also love seeing people do reply blogs of my work. For example Sammy’s Reply of my Find Out Who You Are (56 Questions), I absolutely loved reading this 🙂 I can’t wait to see every one else do their replies on this particular blog. Be sure to tag me so I get notified when you post ❤ (My reply goes up today, be sure to check it out!)

I even love that The Anxious Traveller recommended my page in a blog post called ‘Blogs I Recommend’


^ To read what people think of my blog leaves my heart feeling so lovely ❤

Thank you to each & every one of you for all the support, love, guidance, heart warming comments & kindness. You all mean so much to me & to think you take time out of your day to read my blogs, I am so thankful for that.

On other news, MY BIRTHDAY WAS FRIDAY! However, I haven’t wrote much in regards to it, I haven’t done a birthday post, as I have just been SOOOOOOOO busy. Sometimes I get to write a fair bit of my blogs at work but even work is chaotic, leading up to Christmas we are so busy. I blink & its home time, there isn’t enough minutes in the day!

Stay tuned as I would like to get that up today OR tmrw & share with you some lovely photos of my birthday ❤

Wherever you are in the world, have a lovely day ❤

A, x (1)