Find Out Who You Are (56 Questions)

Hello loves, ❤

Please see below 56 questions on finding out who you really are?

I shall put my answers to these questions tmrw, so stay tuned 🙂


  1. Do I believe that everything is meant to be, or do I think that things just tend to happen for no reason at all?
  2. Do I forgive and forget? Or do I forgive, but always remember?
  3. If I could give one piece of advice to everyone in the world, what would it be?
  4. Do I think that people can change, or that they just are who they are?
  5. Would I consider myself to be religious or spiritual?
  6. Would my 10-year-old self be proud of me?
  7. What do I think is the best revenge?
  8. What would I change about myself?
  9. On the flip side, what would I never change about myself?
  10. Can I confidently say that the path I am on in life right now is the one that I (and no one else) would want for myself?
  11. It’s the year 2040. Where am I?
  12. Am I a morning person or a night owl?
  13. Would I consider myself to be more creative or more logical?
  14. What could I do to be a healthier person?
  15. If time and money were no object, what would I do with my life?
  16. Is it all about luck or hard work?
  17. Should I live with no regrets, or learn from my mistakes?
  18. How would I describe myself in only five words?
  19. Family first, true or false?
  20. Can discipline be learned?
  21. Am I as loyal as I think I am?
  22. How could people be a better friend to me?
  23. How could I be a better friend to people?
  24. Is conformity a good thing or a bad thing?
  25. What is a book I read that completely changed my outlook on life?
  26. How can I be generous when I am not rich?
  27. How can I improve dialogue and communication with those I deeply disagree with?
  28. If I had to make a list of my top 10 most important values, what would they be?
  29. What are my deal breakers for romantic relationships?
  30. Do I love myself?
  31. If not, how could I find a way to love myself?
  32. Is trust always earned, or is it a given until it’s broken?
  33. If I could apologize to one person, who would it be?
  34. And what would I say to that person
  35. If I was able to say one thing to my ex, what would I say?
  36. If I could have one person apologize to me, who would it be?
  37. And what would I want them to say?
  38. Do I ghost people or do I give them a reason for breaking ties?
  39. Do I believe in karma?
  40. How do I show I am angry?
  41. In my opinion, what are my greatest strengths?
  42. In my opinion, what are my greatest weaknesses?
  43. If I could go anywhere in the world, where would I go?
  44. 44  Is work-life balance important to me?
  45. Is family important to me
  46. Is friendship important to me?
  47. Is romantic love important to me?
  48. If I could have one talent, what would it be?
  49. What is one part of my life I miss and why?
  50. What are elements from that time I could incorporate into my present?
  51. Do actions really speak louder than words?
  52. Am I happy with my career?
  53. If not, what could I change about my job to be happier and more satisfied?
  54. What’s more important to me, self respect or being right?
  55. Do I learn from the past or live in the past?
  56. When I die, what do I want to be remembered for?

Would love to see you do a reply on this ❤

Wherever you are in the world, have a lovely day ❤

A, x (1)

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Hello, my name is Anita, I am a 23 year old Croatian girl who loves reading self development books & following others blogs. Having said that, I have decided to create a site that consist of sharing my hobbies daily blogs, daily affirmations, healthy recipes, DIY projects, places I travel to etc. Discovering Your Happiness has a goal of sharing my happiness with you to help you discover your happiness also.

52 thoughts on “Find Out Who You Are (56 Questions)”

  1. Reblogged this on Just a Quiet Girl, Living in a Noisy World and commented:
    1. I believe everything is meant to be. God has a plan for everyone and everything happens according to his plan.

    2. I try my best to forgive and forget. If I can’t forget, I do my absolute best not to hold a grudge.

    3. Advice I would give is to pray often.

    4. I think people can change.

    5. I am religious.

    6. I do believe my 10 year old self would be proud of me. 🙂

    7. No revenge is good revenge.

    8. I would change my social anxiety if I could. I would love to be able to talk to people without feeling terrified.

    9. Overall, I like who I am. I am me and I wouldn’t want to be anyone else. I would never change who I am unless it lead to personal growth or is a flaw that I need to work on.

    10. Yes, I would say the path I am currently on is one that I would want for myself. I am happy. 🙂

    11. In 2040 I see myself in a house, with my husband, probably with some of our kids still living with us.

    12. I am definitely a night owl.

    13. I am more on the creative side than the logical side.

    14. I could go on daily walks to become more healthy.

    15. I would keep my life the way it is, but also buy a house.

    16. Definitely more about hard work than luck.

    17. I should learn from my mistakes. They will help me become a better version of myself.

    18. Shy, quirky, cute, sweet, emotional.

    19. True! Family always comes first.

    20. Yes discipline can be learned.

    21. I am very loyal.

    22. I have the best friends ever and they couldn’t be any better. 🙂

    23. I could try to reach out more and start conversations to be a better friend to people.

    24. It depends on the situation but I think that usually conformity can be a bad thing.

    25. The Purpose Driven Life and Mere Christianity both completely changed my outlook on life.

    26. Tithe 10% to the church and give to friends in need. Offer help and assistance to others.

    27. When I deeply disagree with someone, I try my best to stay calm and hear them out. I need to work on not interrupting.

    28. Top 10 most important values: God, Husband, Family, Church, Friends, School, Work, I can’t think of any more at the moment.

    29. Deal breakers for a romantic relationship are: arrogance, selfishness, different values than me, dishonesty, and poor hygiene are just a few.

    30. I struggle with loving myself. Some days I do, others I don’t. But I know that God loves me and that is the greatest love of all.

    31. I need to accept myself for who I am.

    32. For me, trust is given until it is broken. I am a very trusting person. Sometimes I can be too trusting.

    33. I am very good with apologizing (I do it a lot because I am always making mistakes and messing up). So I cannot think of anyone I need to apologize to at the moment.

    34. When I do apologize, I do my best to admit it was my fault. I don’t say anything like, “I’m sorry you were too ignorant to understand” because that is not a sincere apology.

    35. I don’t have an ex.

    36. I don’t think anyone who I felt should apologize to me hasn’t already apologized.

    37. If someone were to apologize to me, I would just like for it to be sincere.

    38. I feel old (I’m only 20) but I honestly don’t understand this question haha.

    39. No, I do not believe in karma.

    40. I become even more quiet than I already am, I almost seem emotionless, or if I am extremely mad I just cry.

    41. My greatest strengths are my abilities to listen, forgive, and be very empathetic.

    42. My greatest weaknesses are that I am very emotional, can be irrational, has no common sense, and has very bad social anxiety.

    43. I would go to Italy.

    44. Work-life balance is very important to me.

    45. Family is extremely important to me.

    46. Yes, friendship is very important to me. I love all my friends to death.

    47. Romantic love is very important to me and I am blessed to get to experience that every day.
    If I could have one talent, what would it be?
    48. I wish I could play a musical instrument.

    49. I miss not being stressed about bills and grocery shopping lol.

    50. I have no idea…

    51. I believe that actions do speak louder than words.

    52. I am currently a student worker but I am happier with my career trajectory.

    53. I hope to obtain a career in my field after I get my bachelor’s degree next year.

    54. Self respect is more important to me.

    55. I learn from the past.

    56. I just want to be remembered for being a good wife, sibling, and daughter.

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  2. Great list of questions! I’m surprised at how easily I answered them all! Really wanna reblog with my answers, but I’m unsure how since I’m new to this :$ help?
    Love the idea, though! Very excited to read your answers 🙂

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  3. I would love to do this for a future post, as it does make you take a really good look at yourself. But it probably won’t happen until December! I have other posts lined up lol — can’t wait to read your answers!

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  4. I think I may copy this if that’s ok? And do my own replies. And yeah I agree it’s very much a good indication on instant thoughts that come to your mind as soon as you ask yourself these questions. X

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  5. I think this post is a lovely idea, it really makes you think about where you are and what you actually do. I think the most important one on your list is “Is conformity a good thing or a bad thing?”. For me I think this one is difficult I would say in the middle, I think that there is a balance to being individual and putting your own spin on things, but then if conforming makes you happy then I also think that is a good thing… Good question it defo got me thinking! Look forward to your next post!

    Phoebe xo

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