I can admit (oh boy, can I admit) I am very hot-heated. I overthink EVERYTHING! It isn’t a good thing as it damages relationships around me.
I’ve come up with the top 10 rules for fair fighting – as these are something I most certainly need to work on.
Unfortunately, I do not have a filter – I say exactly what I think as soon as it comes into my head (which is most certainly not a good thing)
I say silly things & regret them after.
- No name calling
- No interrupting
- No blaming or accusations
- No cussing
- No yelling
- No sarcasm
- No defensiveness
- No generalizations
- No physical nor emotional violence or threats
- No falling asleep with an unresolved disagreement
I personally know that the above are things I need to work on, let me know your thoughts on what can also help me to when it comes to disagreements and/or arguments w/ loved ones.
Working on myself at the moment has never been such an important thing to me, this is my number 1 priority now.